First, choose who’s getting your ghostgive. Whether it’s your favorite aunt, best friend, quirky co-worker, or perfect stranger, it can be anybody! You can even give to an entire organization if you want to. Got a favorite local hotspot? Send a surprise to the entire staff. Know a deserving family that could use some help? Ghost them!

Next, decide what to give and how you’d like to ghostgive it. Do it on your own or through our website; it’s entirely up to you. From dropping off freshly baked banana bread at a neighbor’s house to sending a digital gift card, we’ve got you covered. We can even help you ghostgive through Amazon (and other e-tailers).

To see ways you can help you ghostgive, visit our WAYS TO GHOSTGIVE page. Or, to see what others are doing to get ideas, visit our GHOST STORIES page.

Add a Ghost Giver card so your recipient knows they got GHOSTED…the good way. You can download and print our free cards or purchase our physical cards and envelopes. The difference between the two is that with our physical cards, you can include a digital message (written, audio, or video), get real-time confirmation, and a possible thank you—which makes it super fun.

When you ghostgive directly through us (Ghost Giver cards or ghostgiver.com), your recipient can retrieve your anonymous message, and you can know that they “got it.” When they visit message.ghostgiver.com and enter their code, you’ll get a confirmation text and email (if they didn’t uncheck the box!).

Not only do you get delivery confirmation, but also a little extra—the chance to get a thank you! After the recipient reads, listens to, or watches their anonymous message, we ask them if they’d like to send a thank you message to the sender (that’s YOU!). If they choose to do so, you’ll get another text and email.